A.K.I.M.A.L.Y.A.H.Always Knowing Important Men And Ladies You Are Here

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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MEANS

Always =  I chose Always for the first letter because as I begin to explain the the meaning of the word I need you to remember that ALWAYS is very important when you are dealing with yourself.  Always remember who you are and whose you are.  You don't have to be less then what someone says to you.

Knowing = meaing you have to know within your heart and you have to believe in yourself.  That you are who you are and you can make or break your life.  If you speak positive things into your life then you will have positive life; not allowing anything to make you think otherwise.

Important = means marked by or indicative of notable worth - noteworthy, noticeable, outstanding, prominent, remarkable, valuable, powerful, big-time, first class, first rate, front-page, top-notch, distinguished, famous - all these things describe you.  It is so imperative that you realize your self worth -YES YOUR SELF WORTH.  You get this in your mind and in your soul it will allow you to believe how important you are.

Men - you have a position in the family that is very important.  Before I get into the role of what a man is suppose to do as far as his family concern, I would like to show you how God allowed you to be who you are from the dust of the earth - Genesis 2:7 "Then the Lord took dust from the ground and formed a man from it.  He breathed the breath of life into the man's nose, and the man became a living person. "

 

Genesis 2:18 "The Lord God said, "it is not good for the man be alone.  I will make a helper who is right for him."  This is how important God thought you the man is Genesis 2:19 "From the ground God formed every wild animal and every bird in the sky, and he brought them to the man so the man could name them.  Whatever the man called each living thing, that became its name."

You are the head of the household.  You are supposed to be leading your family to the right direction, protecting your family.  As far as your wife (spouse, fiancee, other half, boyfriend, girlfriend however) the bible specifically states how you are supposed to treat them.  Ephesians 5:27-29 "He died so that he could give the church to himself like a bride in all her beauty.  He did so that the church could be pure and without fault, with no evil or sin or any other wrong thing in it. [28] In the same way, husbands should love their wives as they love their own bodies.  The man who loves his wife loves himself.  [29] No one ever hates his own body, but but feeds and take care of it."        

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Ladies - we all have a job in a family structure.  Our job ladies is to help the man complete whatever is necessary to help the family structure run smoothly without a blemish and any problems.  We are the child bearer and we are the nurturer of the family.  Helpmeet, means we are to help the man complete whatever endeavor that he has.  We are not to down one another, we are to build up our men.  If he is wearing the wrong shirt or tie, or even going out the house with wrinkle pants then we as the wife has to make sure that it isn't done.  We are to respect our husbands.  God sent him to us, it was ordained for us to be married and have children so that the world can continue to grow. Women we are not meant to be alone Genesis 2:18 "Then the Lord God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone, i will make a helper who is right for him."  When you are matched with that special love one you should be able to fit into your husband's or the love of your life rib.  Genesis 2:21 "So the Lord God caused the man to sleep very deeply, and while he was asleep, God removed one of the man's ribs.  Then God closed up the man's skin at he place where he took the rib.  [22] The Lord God used the rib from the man to make a woman, and then he brought the woman to the man.

[23]And the man said, "Now this is someone whose bones came from my bones, whose body came from my body, I will call her 'woman,' because she was taken out of man." Ephesains 5:21 "Yield to obey each other because you respect Christ (God).  [24] Wives, yield to your husbands, as you do to the Lord, [23] because the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church.  And he is the Savior of the body, which is the church. [24] As the church yields to Christ, so you wives should yield to your husbands in everything."  Do this mean that men are supposed to control your spouse, girlfriend, wife?  No this just means its telling you the roles as a family structure. A woman can't teach a boy how to be a man - thats a father job; just the same a man can't tell a little girl how to be a woman.  We all have our duties to each other - we are all important.

You = yes this refers to you - which means you are not excluded - please don't allow anyone to discredit you.

 

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Here = look yourself in the mirror and you will see the important person.

 

A.K.I.M.A.L.Y.A.H.

 

is an extension, under the umbrella of Wake Up! It's All About You Foundation

 Which started in 2001 - Foundation to help those that are in abusive relationships or gotten out and now trying to live past the abusive and controlling abuser.

 

Recognize, Identify,  Relate, Educate,

 

Evaluate, and then Vacate All Abuse

 

Wake Up! It's All About You Foundation @ 2001 All Rights Reserved

MISSION

 

Wake Up! It's All About You Foundation

 

is about educating the world about Domestic Violence.

Currently give Domestic Violence Workshops - difference from most is they only cater to women and children.

Everyone needs help including men.

Want to eventually get a building for anyone that is going through that

and want to transition out and we want to be a place where they can truly feel safe.

I know of couple of places where they have safe houses, its just weird to me where they put them.

 

A.K.I.M.A.L.Y.A.H. Publishing

 

 is mainly about teaching and reaching

those that don't have a voice to someone about their hurts and pains.

Teaching them to move from not only just physically removing yourself

from your abusive situation but mentally as well.

There is a process you go through when you leave;

with my experience hopefully through my writing you can learn that process.

Everything i write is a true story that happened in my life.

Thus far working on 13-15 books.

God is blessing me with the abilty to write and heal.

You have to find what helps you to heal, writing did it for me

What is your passion? Helping people has always been my passion

Since 1983, when I used to write people when I hear they were locked up.

Always felt the need to let people know they were not alone.

As today you are not alone, you are not definately not the only one

going through this type of ordeal.

Find, please find a way to heal.  The hardest part about healing is facing

self and the accusor sometimes.